It's the little things...

Just a quick little notes about some of the things you may have noticed the last few days. I've been trying to crank through some of the more annoying bugs and issues that have cropped up due to the most recent updates, module changes and just general wear and tear of the place.

Greeting New Mistresses

Hi folks. Your friendly giraffe mod Glenda here again. :) Yesterday we had another fake mistress (called Martina) trying to trap some users on our Chat system. Details can be found here, but they were basically trying to get Skype IDs, email addresses and photos of people's faces, These requests for personal information led to the user being banned with immediate effect.

While investigating them, I've also seen how some users are approaching new mistresses on the site. It's wonderful that you're welcoming new roleplayers - that's absolutely fine and encouraged. The more people we have roleplaying Mistress characters in our stories and games, the better. But when it comes to Mistresses claiming to offer real-life training, things get rather more concerning.

The idea of real-life training is very tempting for all of us. But it seems some of you are too willing to give out personal details to a complete stranger, who you know absolutely nothing about. That is extremely dangerous. Skype sessions can be recorded, for instance, so if they have videos of that and/or face photos of you, along with your contact details, they can really screw you over. Nobody here needs those details from you. So remember...

NEVER EVER give (or offer to give) personal information - e.g. email addresses, Skype IDs, phone numbers, face photos, etc - to a complete stranger you've only just met online. A genuine, professional and respectful real-life mistress will NEVER approach people on a site like this and ask for that kind of information.


So you may have noticed things look a little different around here. Don't panic. It's still a work in progress... but hopefully this will solve some long outstanding issues we've had around here along with giving us a bit of a spit-shine... (stop giggling... spit shine, it's a real thing.)

There are going to be some bugs, quirks and weirdness for the next few days. It's inevitable what with coding and web-design not being 100% my forte... so as you find things, please try not to be frustrated and post the stuff that needs work here so I can take a look.

2016 Sissy Resolutions

Happy New Year everyone!

In just a few hours we will be entering a brand new year and a brand new opportunity for all of you to embrace one more step towards femininity. Please take just a moment and list a goal for yourself for this year that will make you more physically, emotionally or spiritually connected with your submissive, feminine self.

Dommes... please pay attention... we will need to check up on everyone periodically and make sure they're following through. :D

Hope everyone has a wonderful, safe and happy evening. It's going to be a great year!


Electrified Update

So... um... my computer fried itself two weeks ago. I took it in for repair and it was supposed to be returned before the Holidays. It was not. *grumbles*

Apologies to those I just started posting with. I keep telling myself I can post quick little things with my mobile, but I find it disheartening. Mental note to fix mobile accessibility. I will return and with my return should come the conclusion to maidenhead, some more sissylink stuff and hopefully another fun surprise or two. Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas And Happy New Year!

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

Hi everyone! Glenda here!

On behalf of Melissa, Renee and the admins, thank you all for supporting and contributing to Locked In Lace, and ensuring that it's the friendly, fun and inspiring place it continues to be for so many people. Without all of you, there would be no reason for this kind and kinky corner of the web to exist, regardless of any bells and whistles we might add to the place.

Most importantly, though, we hope that everyone reading this has a very happy festive season! Please relax, stay safe, look after those you love and have fun. Or if you're not having a very jolly time at the moment, our thoughts are with you too.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and all the best for 2016! :D


Just a quick note to say thank you to this wonderful community. I've been neglectful of late due to a myriad of real life obligations and jobs, but every time I poke my little nose in here to see what is going on, I am always thrilled to see such a friendly and positive group of people. I owe a huge debt of gratitude to our loyal moderators who keep up the day to day grind for us. This place would not still be around if not for the work they do. But it's more than just the three of them.

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Maidenhead - Chapter 18

Chapter Eighteen

Sorry for the long cliff hanger on this one. Did you miss me?

The break was not intentional, but a necessary obligation of life. Here's hoping that we continue through to the end on a more regular schedule on these last few chapters! Hopefully everyone remembers some of what was going on... We're approaching the end game now... Hopefully the break didn't ruin all these many long weeks of foreplay we've invested into this story, no?

Let me know your thoughts... always so great to hear what everyone thinks!

All About The Fakes, No Trouble

Hi folks! It's your friendly giraffe mod Glenda here. :D This has mainly affected newer members, but all users need to be aware of it.

We've had another fake mistress on the site this week (massive thanks and respect to those who reported it). The user is:


A copy of their message has been kindly provided by Herr Stein in the comments to this post, so you can see what it said.

For those who don't know, this is a problem that comes up every so often, where a person posing as a mistress will contact users with offers of personal, real-life training. However, these cases are always fake. The important thing to remember is this:

A professional and genuine mistress will NEVER contact strangers via Private Messages to offer personal training away from the site. Ever. Period. End of. It just doesn't work like that. It doesn't matter if they have a profile image or claim to be genuine, they're still a fraud.