Explicit media and pictures, XXX-rated Porn

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  • #27535
     Manu 
    Participant

    Dear LiLians,

    I’m not quite sure what kind of content is meant by ‘Rule 2’ of our ‘Code of Conduct’: ‘explicit media and images’,’ xxx-rated Imagery’. Especially because of it surely doesn’t mean the same all over the world. So I would expect, that we have to follow the rules of a certain location, state or something like this. I do not know these rules exactly and am very uncertain about the use of pictures.

    I don’t want to risk the future of LiL, only because of loseness on this issue. Here are some main questions, as I actually see it:

    1. Is it allowed to show pictures with closeups of male or female genitals?

    2. Is it allowed to show pictures with closeups of interacting genitals?

    3. How about closeups with oral?

    4. What if the closup part is blurred a little bit?

    5. What if the picture is kind of a drawing?

    6. What about closeup with secondary sexual characteristics?

    7. What if any of the previous descripted content (above) isn’t shown in a closeup, but clearly visable?

    I believe, we should be explicit on this matter, to avoid harm.

     

    Thanks for reading, thinking and maybe answering

    Yours Manu

    • This topic was modified 8 months, 1 week ago by  Manu.
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    #27610
     Zahralena Zofyescu 
    Participant

    I’ve wondered the same thing, and have decided to err on the side of caution. The way I read it, no interacting genitals (including oral) are allowed. I seem to detect some mixed signals about nudity, but have decided to only use clothed images, until and unless I am told otherwise. Besides, clothed images force us to use our imaginations more, which to me brings a more fulfilling experience. The less you show, the more you have to tell; the more you have to tell, the more deeply you can assess and interact with your fantasies (just my opinion, of course).

     

    Either way, my advice is thus: if you think it might be over the line, then assume it is and pick a different photo, or just omit a photo altogether. This isn’t just a place to get our rocks off (although, please do), it’s a safe place for all of us to be introspective about things we can’t always be open about irl. It’s also the product of labor that has been done lovingly and graciously by our webmistresses. Let’s respect the sanctity of that safety and that love, and be cautious.

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    #28131
     Jacqueline 
    Moderator

    Nudity is okay. Sex acts between people is not. I hope this helps explain the rule.

    • This reply was modified 8 months, 1 week ago by  Jacqueline.
    #28154
     Manu 
    Participant

    Hello Jaqueline,

    thank you for your post. Does the term “sex acts” include every sexual interaction? This can’t be possible, pictures of kissing and foreplay for instance? Maybe something like these?:

    Another question comes up with this issue. Do we have anybody who is able to control our media content?

    Thanks

    Yours Manu

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    #28273
     Jacqueline 
    Moderator

    Hello Manu.

    Those pictures appear to be very close to the line and perhaps over it. Yes, we do have moderators such as myself who can delete content we feel might violate the rules of WordPress.

    I think it best that we not push the envelope for the good of all.

    Hugs
    Jacqueline

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    #28278
     Manu 
    Participant

    Hello Jaqueline,

    thank you for this statement. I seems to be, that any kind of shown sexual interaction makes it explicit. I will keep that in mind.

    Thanks and hugs

    Yours Manu

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    #28287
     Manu 
    Participant

    Hello LiLians,

    I did some research and found something on the WordPress support site:

    WordPress support about Mature Content .

    Thanks for reading, I for myself, feel better informed and able to post with proper care.

    Yours Manu

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    #28438
     Jacqueline 
    Moderator

    Thank you Manu. I shall keep that link handy should the question come up again in the future.

    #28520
     Zahralena Zofyescu 
    Participant

    That link is useful, but it remains somewhat ambiguous lol. It’s like the old Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart quote:

    “I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description [hard-core pornography]; and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it…”

    As far as court precedent is concerned, it basically means cover your own ass, because pornography is in the eye of the beholder.

     

     

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    #28650
     Jacqueline 
    Moderator

    And that shows the difficulty of a moderator making the decision. 🙂

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    #45467
     Suzy 
    Participant

    Is this too rude?

    #68775
     Manu 
    Participant

    Dear LiLians,

    I struggle with the meaning of (especially of the penile persuasion)’, in

    Notification about near end!

    I’m sorry for my poor english. ‘persuasion’ has so many different translations, they don’t make much sense for me, closest seems to be ”influence’, ‘impact’. Does this mean explicit media with the typical ‘male gaze’, especially closeup of the female genitalia . . . I’m really confused.

    Manu Winter

    • This reply was modified 3 weeks ago by  Manu.
    • This reply was modified 3 weeks ago by  Manu.
    #68794
     Manu 
    Participant

    Dear Admins,

    I struggle with completely deleting some of the pics.

    1. not my own group: I cannot delete any pic and have to report it, to provoke a examination and a deleting by you.

    2. my own group, my own post: I can edit my post, delete the pic within and delete the thumbnail.

    3. my own group, not my own post: I only can delete the pic within the post, not the thumbnail. What shall I do with this? Report? Leave it like it is? The problem is, the thumbnail leads to the pic, loaded up in LiL. That means it is available and violates constantly the ‘no porn rule’. What shall I do?

     

    Manu Winter

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    #68840
     V!ct0r!a 
    Participant

    hi Girls and miss,

    i dont know what caused the issue here is, but lately i see attached error message when i hit lil url. Last thing on earth i want to happen is lil going away. its nice home to meet you all.

     

    in case if anyof you face issue and wish to stay in touch until it resolved plz hit me on me.victoriaj@gmail.com

     

    miss mellisa, i am ready assist in my capacity to resolve the issue do let me know if you need anything on my part.

     

    love

    Victoria

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    #68875
     Jacqueline 
    Moderator

    Hello Manu,
    If there is something you wish to report or delete, feel free to send me a link to it. I’ll be happy to help. I received a number of reports this morning and edited the posts to remove the x rated content. Both the photos and the thumbnail attachments.
    Hugs
    Jacqueline

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    #68891
     Sarah 
    Participant

    Manu persuasion in this sense means male sex organ, I think it is because the male penis is out there where a woman you can have a naked picture and nothing really showing. I think if you had a picture with a woman with her legs spread then the same would apply.

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